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第184章 情侣相处,女生的这些行为,会让男生失去安全感(2 / 2)

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说明她根本没打算和你走太远。

就算不愿意放出你的照片,至少也应该传递她正在恋爱的状态。

不然,她那么精彩的朋友圈里,唯独没有你,是什么意思呢?

-03

“我们分手吧”

有些女生,习惯用“威胁”的恋爱方式跟男生相处。

比如说:

一旦两个人产生矛盾,无论是谁的错,只要男生的态度让女生不满意。

她就会说:“我们分手吧”。

只要她对男生有一点儿不满,情绪有一点儿低落或焦虑,她就会把这些坏情绪全都转移到男生身上。

习惯威胁,习惯用“我们分手吧”来打压男生,试图用这样的方式控制男生。

本质上来说:

女生这种“用分手威胁男生”的行为,是想要在感情里抓住更多主动权和筹码。

但她却忽略了一个问题:

任何事情,超过了一定限度,都容易适得其反。

一次次试探,一次次威胁,男生也会失去耐心。

更何况,你的一次次提分手,也会让男生失去安全感。

而安全感在亲密关系里,是两个人感情是否稳定的基石。

-04

较少的付出

对于一个真爱你的男生来说,他不在乎你在他身上付出多少“物质基础”,他更在意你是否愿意给他足够多的陪伴。

举个例子:

双方过生日时,男生愿意送你价值2k的礼物;如果女生回给男生价值500的礼物,男生也不会生气。

但是,如果男生愿意花时间陪伴女生,而女生宁可跟闺蜜逛街也不想陪男生,那男生一定会失落。

短时间的供需关系失衡,男生能够接受。

如果再你们的恋爱过程中,始终都处于失衡状态,男生就会愈发焦虑。

他会患得患失,会质疑自己,更会怀疑你对他的感情。

有些男生,会质问你;

有些男生,会越来越情绪化;

也有一些男生,会因为“被你忽视”,选择离开你。

任何一段关系,索取和付出都应该保持在合理的范围内。

有索取,也得有付出;不能只付出,也要学会索取。

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